First SSM Marriage In The United States – 5/17/2004

On this day, only nine years ago, Marcia Kadish and Tanya McCloskey became the first same-sex couple to legally marry in the United States. They had been partners for eighteen years, and after a five hour long wait in line they received their marriage license the night before they wed.

The Washington Post writes,

The first to wed were Tanya McCloskey, 52, and Marcia Kadish, 56, of Malden, who said they had not sought the limelight but merely wanted to get the ceremony over with so they could enjoy the rest of the day. “I now pronounce that you are married under the laws of Massachusetts,” Cambridge City Clerk Margaret Drury declared at 9:10 a.m. “You may seal this marriage with a kiss.”

The Baytown Sun reports,

Marcia Kadish, left,and Tanya McCloskey react after being the first gay couple to be married in Cambridge, Mass., Monday, May 17, 2004, at at Cambridge City Hall. Gay couples began exchanging marriage vows in Massachusetts on Monday, marking the first time a U.S. state has granted gays and lesbians the right to marry and making the United States one of a handful of countries where homosexuals can legally wed. (AP Photo/The Boston Globe, Dina Rudick)

Photo © 2011 AP/Boston Globe
Source: http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/news-photo/at-cambridge-city-hall-marcia-kadish-and-tanya-mccloskey-news-photo/117725817

Other Links…

Married In Massachusettes
http://www.cbsnews.com/2300-500144_162-617905-2.html

Same-sex Marriage in Massachusettes
http://www.boston.com/news/specials/gay_marriage/gallery/cambridge2?pg=2

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Neat 5 Tips (if only for me)

I have a love-hate relationship with the Neat Company.

My tips, if only for myself so that I remember them.

(1) Export all documents to PDF. The search within the Neat 5 program is horrible. For example, you cannot search for phrases or even more than one keyword. There is no AND in the search so if multiple keywords are entered, the results will list any document that contains ANY of the keywords, not ALL. Sucks. By exporting you can then use Windows Search or any other good search engine.

(2) Use two monitors. The preview window pane is limited in size. Open a document in full screen and then move it to the second monitor.

Read the many BAD reviews of this software on Amazon. Great idea for a product, but there are just so many flaws that overall it is painful to work with. http://www.amazon.com/review/R1V5I3ELD59JX7/ref=cm_srch_res_rtr_alt_3

To be continually updated…

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Happy Mothers Day!

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While my mother has long passed, I have more women in my life who act in her place then one could imagine. So, to all of you mothers, this one is for you.

“Delivered” by Adam Sandler,

Mama was the one who reached down and tied my shoelace.
Mama spit on her fingers and used it to clean dirt off my face.

Brush your teeth, Q-tip your ear,
take off your sister’s new brassiere.
Watch PBS, not Deputy Dawg,
don’t you eat that Lincoln Log.
Oh mama I still don’t believe it’s true:
The tooth fairy was you.  (No Way!)

I love you maaaaaama,
more than than paaaastramaaaa,
way more than Jeffrey Daaaahmaaaa,
even more than my NFL paaaaajamaaas.

Mama always calmed down dad when he got too mean.
Like the time he almost hit me for stealing his Jugs Magazine.
Stop your jumping, you’ll break the bed.
Don’t you fill up on the bread.
Take those.. take those.. take… carrots out of your nose,
That’s not a hat that’s pantyhose.

Don’t play baseball in your suit, that Magnum PI’s very cute.
Don’t forget Vick’s Vapor-Rub, and stop masturbating in the tub. 

Thanks for making corn beef hash,
and putting powder on my rash. So much better!

I love you maaaaaama,
more than golf with Arnold Paaaaalmaaaa,
more than yellow moons in Lucky Chaaamaaaas,
That Def Leppard’s drummer only had one aaarmaaaa.
Ohhh, Mrs. Nealon, yes it’s true, Kevin’s gonna sing to you.

Come on Kevin.

I love you maaaaaamaaa
Come on, keep goin’.
More than films by Brian DePaaalmaaaa.
Thanks for being my date to the praaamaaaaaaa.

Thanks for writing that note to the draft board that said I was gay so I got out of Vietnaaaamaaaaa.

Mom your way better than the World Trade Center baaaaambaaaa.
Who’s name by the way is Mohamed Salaaamaaaa.
I love you even more than Richard Gere loves the Dali Laaaahhmaaaaa.
And Richard Gere was also good in “Sommersby”, which was a melodraaamaaaa.

Oh, all you moms out there ought-a know, we kids love you so.

Have a Happy Mother’s Day! Thank you very much! 

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New Erasure Christmas Album In The Works

New Christmas Album ComingYay! According to Side-Line.com,

Erasure are working on a Christmas album which should be due out this winter. The band is currently recording in Vince Clarke’s studio which is based in Brooklyn, New York. The album will not only hold Erasure’s take on a few Christmas classics but also some own Christmas songs. Expect some really cheesy material, hardly an insult for the electropop duo.

The band made the announcement in a video, which seems to be shot out of the blue looking at the way Andy Bell is being filmed. Fun times there in Brooklyn. The above picture was made by Erasure.ru, it’s not an official picture, yet.

Can’t wait! Until then, my erasure favorite at Christmas remains “She Won’t Be Home”.

Erasure to release Christmas album – work in progress in Brooklyn
http://www.side-line.com/news_comments.php?id=49437_0_2_0_C

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Marriage Equality from our Goddaughter

x and cI am in complete, absolute awe right now. Our friend Chris just shared the video below of our 6-year-old goddaughter Chloe (pictured left, with her older brother, our godson, Xander), explaining Marriage Equality. This was unrehearsed, she just started talking about marriage to her dad this morning, he saw where she was going so pulled out his phone to capture it. I am so excited for our future.

Kids get it!! We will have marriage equality one day if this little girl has anything to do with it. Love you Chloe! XOXO  -  From the mouths of babes…

Marriage Equality from a Kindergartner

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Sucker For Punishment

I googled ‘Sucker For Punishment’ and look what I found! Sad, but true.

Urban Dictionary:

Sucker For Punishment. [idiom]
/ˈsəkər fôr pəniSHmənt’ / abbr. SFP

Someone who just can’t get enough. An incredibly high threshold for either or both physical and emotional pain, coupled with great stubborness [sic] (or determination, as they call it) makes someone a sucker for punishment.A sucker for punishment is strongly self reliant and independant [sic] and take it apon [sic] themselves, and no-one else to solve their problems. Their relentless determination and unbreakable spirit means they never back down, never give up, they are absolutely determined to keep going despite what pain it may be causing them, and what obstacles stand in their way. The person is desperate to get things done by themselves, they usually reject help until they literally can’t carry on anymore.To others their efforts may not seem worth it, but for them the victory alone is worth it,never mind the prize, they gain great satisfaction from achieving their goals but failure from resorting to someone elses’ [sic] help. 

Their relentless determination is usually a good a thing, such people rarely fail, but is also often a bad thing. If they ever can’t succeed for whatever reason, they will just try and try and try and try until their apparently never-ending strength has been spent, this is very painful and exhausting to both them and their friends who they commonly reject the aid of.

1:”Damn, that guy’s fell off like hundred times, he’s bleeding and everything!”
2:”Such a sucker for punishment, when will he learn?”
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Thanks Amazon & Microsoft (Sorry, AFA)

I just received an “AFA Action Alert” from the American Family Association. OMG! Amazon.com and Microsoft have put out “pro-homosexual marriage commercials”!!!

Their plea is to get members to contact Microsoft and Amazon to urge them to stop promoting homosexual marriage. HA! Good luck with that Mr. Wildmon.

But, thanks for the links! Both commercials can be seen below.

Kindle Paperwhite: Perfect at the Beach (published February 22, 2013)

Outlook.com – Get up-to-date (published March 11, 2013)

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Happy Saint Patty’s Day!

Maiden to Married, German to Irish!

“There are only two kinds of people in the world, The Irish and those who wish they were.”
—Anonymous

Yesterday, Jimmy and I attended our friends’ civil union. One of the ladies is taking the other lady’s name, just as I did–took Jimmy’s namemany years ago. Since learning this I have been thinking of my old (“maiden”) last name, and with today being St. Patrick’s Day, I decided to look up the origins of both names. I have Irish in my blood, but learned here that my name was German.

Maiden name: Harmon

This unusual and interesting surname has a very ancient history. It is one of the Norman forms of the Germanic personal name “Hermann”, composed of the elements “heri, hari” meaning army, plus “man”, man. The first known bearer was “Arminus”, the 1st Century leader of a tribe called the “Cherusci”, recorded by the Latin historian Tacitus. The popularity of the name is borne out by the large number of surnames it has generated throughout Europe; in England the inherited Norman forms existing in the modern idiom are Hearmon, Harmon, Herman, Harmon, Harmond, Harmant, and Hermon. The name development includes: Robert Hereman (1196, Norfolk), William Heremond (1296, Sussex), and John Harman (1327, Suffolk). London Church Records list the marriage of Constantine Harmon to Margaret Fenton, on October 31st 1570 at St. Mary Abchurch, and John Harmon to Alice Mason, on October 10th 1572 at St. Botolph’s, Bishopsgate. A Coat of Arms granted to a Harmon family is silver, in base a red crescent issuant therefrom a green rose branch, blue flowered. The first recorded spelling of the family name is shown to be that of Willelmus Hermannus, which was dated 1141 – 1149, in the “Records of Holme”, Norfolk, during the reign of King Stephen, known as “Count of Blois”, 1135 – 1154. Surnames became necessary when governments introduced personal taxation. In England this was known as Poll Tax. Throughout the centuries, surnames in every country have continued to “develop” often leading to astonishing variants of the original spelling.

 

Married name: Madden

Recorded as Madain, Madden, Maddin, Madigan and MacAvaddy, this is a famous Irish surname. It derives from the pre 10th century Olde Gaelic name O’Madain, translating as the descendant of the son of the hound. The hound is famous in Gaelic heraldry having the virtues of speed, endurance, and loyalty. Most Irish surnames originate from a chief’s nickname. O’Kennedy, for instance means the male descendant of the ugly headed one! The O’Madain’s originated from lands on the River Shannon in County Galway, at one time holding over 25,000 acres. Even today nameholders are still numerous in that part of Ireland. The Madigan branch of the clan are regarded as almost exclusively a Clare-Limerick family, although a branch are to be found in Counties Antrim and Derry in Ulster. Richard Madden, (1798 – 1886) was the author of the book ‘The United Irishman’, whilst many name holders emigrated to either America or England during the infamous ‘Potato Famine’ of 1846. Walter Madden, his wife Mary and their children Richard aged five and Alice, a baby sailed from Galway, bound for New York on the ship ‘Junius ‘ on May 1st 1846. The first recorded spelling of the family name is believed to be that of Dermot O’Madadhain. This was dated circa 1100 a.d. He was chief of the Ui Maine, Connacht, during the reign of King Henry Ist of England, known as ‘The Just”, 1100 – 1135. Throughout the centuries, surnames in every country have continued to “develop” often leading to astonishing variants of the original spelling.1135.

Sources:

http://www.surnamedb.com/Surname/Harmon

http://www.surnamedb.com/Surname/Madden

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Vote For ‘Hold Your Own’ – Thank You!!

Please help my neighbor and friend Victor Switenko by voting for him and his band in a local radio station contest. Hold Your Own are now in the top 25 out of ~400 bands so there is a real good chance here! The winning band will be the opening for the radio station’s 6th Birthday Show at Susquehanna Bank Center! The station wants a Philadelphia area local band to do the opening, and they are really awesome, so we want to help get them to #1!

Takes just a few minutes, we’d really appreciate it!

Simple Instructions:

  • Go to the radio1045.com http://is.gd/D9igb8 voting page
  • Click the top orange block- CLICK HERE TO VOTE
  • You have to register once, tick “NO” for each of the 3 questions at bottom
  • (subsequent visits you will only need to enter your email address)
  • Select their band, HOLD YOUR OWN
  • Enter CAPTCHA Code (sorry, know I hate these too)
  • Click “Enter Contest” (poorly labeled) button at the bottom

THANK YOU!

“Hold Your Own” (Victor is second from left)

Fun/Silly Vote Plea

Hold Your Own – Bleed Fast Don’t Cry (OFFICIAL VIDEO)

YouTube “HoldYourOwnTube” (LOL): youtube.com/user/HoldYourOwnTube
Facebook: facebook.com/holdyourownband
Twitter: twitter.com/HoldYourOwnBand
bandcamp: holdyourown.bandcamp.com

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Kazaky

I may be the last to learn of this Ukrainian all-male synthpop dance group, Kazaky, from news I read this morning about a new song they have put out, a possible response to Russia’s anti-gay propaganda laws, “Crazy Law” (first video below). Good for them! I love their sound, and their black-and-white theme to their music videos is both hot and artistic. Here are some of their videos I am enjoying on a loop.

Kazaky

Crazy Law

In The Middle

Last Night

Stadium

Love

Dance And Change

Pohvir (Change, You Can, I Know)

Kazaky Horror Picture Show

Guys Gone Wild (Music Video)

Madonna-Girls Gone Wild Kazaky – HD (Offer Nissim Remix)

Sources:
http://www.kazaky.com
http://www.youtube.com/kazakyofficial
https://www.facebook.com/KazakyOfficial
https://twitter.com/KazakyOfficial
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kazaky
Boys in heels respond to Russia’s anti-gay ‘Crazy Law’

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